The Learners' Den

Image by Seif Eddin Khayat on Unsplash I am writing to you in the hope that you are feeling well. I write this letter to prepare you for the failures and heartaches that life may hurl at you. If I do not get to watch you grow into the woman I hope you will be, just know that daddy loves you to the square of infinity. Accordingly, in this letter,  I aim to impart to you some of the wisdom and invaluable lessons that, at this point, I  gained from life.  They  will  assist  you  in  adjusting,  adapting,  and  navigating  your  way  through  life. First of all, you cannot control the events that happen in your life, but you are at liberty to choose how to respond to each event. If you choose to see the positive side of every situation, you will be successful; however, if you train your mind to always see the negative, the consequences will be overwhelming. Although it is natural to feel overwhelmed and discouraged ...

Stunned 😧 Image: istockphoto.com Upon the first gaze, my heart did race, For her mystical beauty, an ethereal grace. She is in her prime youth, a flawless truth. Vibrant and passionate in her actions too, A filtered saccharine voice, to her one succumbs. Compassionate eyes, innocent and pure, A sight to behold, forever to endure. Manners impeccable, leaving one breathless, One of the most stunning dames, truly ageless. An inspiration, a muse to my heart, She's the one, my new resort .

Perfumes; Image Right: Freepik.com Several reasons exist why men should wear perfume when going out. Using a fragrance will greatly enhance your appearance and self-confidence. A high-quality perfume will boost your sense of magnificence, which can be beneficial in both your personal and professional life.  Using perfume can also be an excellent way to make a positive impression on others. It can be a subtle yet powerful means of leaving an impact on those around you, be it a potential romantic interest, a coworker, or a friend. Another benefit of using perfume is that it enables you to express your personality and individual style. The fragrance you choose to wear will reflect your personality and preferences, much as your fashion and choices do. It's also important to note that using a fragrance will help to conceal any unpleasant odors whether it is a body or smoking odor.  Additionally, it is inappropriate to go out without wearing a fragrance that makes you fe...

Myself 🤨 The day had been long and stressful. I got back to the hostel at 6 p.m., weary from lectures. Suleiman Hall in ABU Zaria is often congested in the evenings with students trudging to their rooms, mosque, or toilet. I can't remember the date, but the hostel was as noisy as usual when I entered. The noise level was high, with music blaring from some rooms and laughter and conversation echoing down the corridors. My room was on the second floor of block F4, but that day I chose to go to my friend's room, which is on the ground floor to perform ablution and pray the Maghrib Prayer. When I walked into the room, all of the kettles were taken. I had to wait for someone before I prayed. My phone rang as I was waiting for my turn. I answered the phone, and an unknown woman's voice on the other end greeted me. "Please, is this Adamu?" she inquired. "Yes, who is this?" I replied quickly. She went on to say that her friend gave her my phone numb...